Men should initiate

Like kisses on the neck or when she asks me to tickle her back with my fingers. She basically gives me signals that can be used at any time of the day but not meant to for sex. We could easily go weeks without sex until I do something. And by something I am the one that has to touch her vagina or just put my face in it. We have talked about sex and still she wont change.

She has zero imagination in the bedroom. She says she loves sex with me and wants it all of the time but will never put herself into the position to have it. Like she will stay up as late as possible watching TV or playing on her phone then not take a shower before bed and leave her underwear on. She falls asleep on the couch watching TV. She basically does nothing to prioritize sex.

And Dr. Trina should not be writing anymore in regards to sex as she still puts everything back onto the man to do everything. As a man myself reading this article, I too felt like the good doctor was just putting it right back on our shoulders.

I too very much appreciate the seemingly better understanding that Laura 88 has on the subject. Laura88 I am a guy and seriously you are speaking the truth. Nothing should be told and then happen a couple of days later. But we can listen and take things on board. My advice would be just to every so often every month or so just take your man. Start just by sitting on his lap and kissing him like a teenager and after a minute of that just saying how you want him.

I am sure you can tell how much he would want you by then. So many of us guys want our partners to be true equals. But every now and then. Just be a bit animalistic and enjoy each other physically. Laura 88 sounds like you need to write a article. This was so unhelpful for me! Not exactly pillow talk. This may not seem like foreplay, but it can help new moms unwind enough to consider initiating sex. Prause agrees, adding that clearly communicating your sexual desires is always a good first step.

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